Sunday, March 9, 2014

at PEACE in the STORM By: Ken Gire

 
"Even Jesus struggled when he was Gethsemane and peace eluded him.  But in that painfully horrific space of time, he eventually experienced calm.  And though his circumstances did not change, and the cup he asked to be removed still awaited him, peace descended upon the Savior, and he faced his appointed mission with calm, grace, and courage." Ken Gire
 
As a follower of Christ, we are always in need of reminders and guidance from other followers.  Ken Gire does both through his book, At Peace in the Storm.
 
Ken shares, reminds and guides you through life's storms towards God's peace from beginning to end of this book. Ken does so through Biblical stories and scripture as well as his own personal life. 
Ken Gire comes along side you no matter what your storm is and guides you towards finding peace through perspective, scripture, personal stories, rest, creation and recreation to name a few.  As you read you will be reminded of God's love for you and His gift of peace.  You will be reminded that Christ is with you and He is bigger than your storm.  Your thoughts will shift from the size of your struggle or storm to the size of your God, which is something we all need to be reminded of at times. 
 
Ken's humility is threaded throughout his book with stories from his own personal storms creating a connection with his readers.  I would recommend this book to anyone who is walking through a storm and is struggling to see the light and find God's peace.  I would also recommend this book to anyone who knows anyone who is in the midst of their storm, being beaten by the waves and too busy tossing water out to stay afloat to look up and see Christ. 
 
Ken's style of writing is easy to follow and understand.  Ken's compassion is comforting and his words are a steady reminder of God's love and grace for His children. 
 
It was such a blessing to read and review this book and I know God will use this book for His glory and His good to bring peace to many in their storms. 
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Snow Day

God has a way of slowing us down and grabbing our attention. God has a way of showing us things that need to be addressed and surrendered over. God has a way to slow us down enough to enjoy what he has blessed us with and to give thanks for those things and not long for what we don't have. God has a way of meeting our needs and gives us opportunities to reflect on that instead of the wants we lack. For me, this happened on a snowy day. 

I spend time in daily devotions and reading Gods word. I spend time in gratitude and thanksgiving through prayer and worship. I spend time in fellowship with my Father and I even spend time sharing all this with others. However, life is crazy with two little girls, and a job. I spend all day everyday caring for others, giving myself my time my resources and my energy that I forget to stop and allow God to refuel me. If I'm not getting my fuel from Christ then what overflows from me can't be from Christ. 

I've been stressed lately about life events and running and doing. I have heard Gods voice saying, "slow down Amanda and trust me. Enjoy what I have blessed up with, refuel, and surrender."  I ignored it trying to keep up with life before life swept me under the rug and out the door. Then there was the snow. 

The first snow of 2014 was coming our way. God said clearly, "I'm providing you with an opportunity to rest, refuel and enjoy. Will you join me Amanda?" God was so clear wanting my attention. 

The alarm went off that morning and out of bed I flew ignoring His request. After my shower to wake me up, there was a text message from my boss, "we will be closed today. If you would like to work in one of our other locations you can. If not, rest and enjoy." I thought I can't afford to rest and what can I enjoy with all this stress. I finished getting dressed and out the door I rushed.  I felt God saying, "I wanted to spend time with you and redirect your thoughts and heart and take some of that stress from you. You have a good day and we will talk later."  I worked  and came home. I played with the girls. I fixed dinner. I watched some tv. I talked to a few friends and family members. I tucked my kids into bed and laid down myself. God spoke again, "can I have your attention now?" My reply, "God my heart is so heavy and I'm so exhausted. Confusion clouds my vision and Im running low on energy and so much more. If I can't  give you all of me it's not right to only give you some of me. 

Ouch what a response. If my daughter would have said that to it me it would break my heart into a million pieces. 

I knew I had grieved the Holy Spirit and my father. I slept the best I could. The alarm went off again. I jumped up and began my morning. I looked out the window waiting for my coffee and tucked my head down. Snow everywhere. I grabbed my phone and there was a text from my boss. I believe it was God though who sent it. It read, "we are closed today. Rest and enjoy your girls and day off."  This time there was no option to work. God spoke again, "can we talk?"  My heart broke this morning as I surrender to His request. I engaged in worship and allowed His word and love to mend my heart and refuel my soul. I cried, I laughed, I sang, and bit by bit the shell the covered my heart began to crack. I laid back down and shut my eyes. As my girls woke we listened to music and cooked breakfast together. We cleaned up a little bit and spent time outside tossing snow balls and building small snowmen. We drank hot chocolate and read our devotional together. We were enjoying what God had given us. Each other.  

The day isn't over yet but I am so glad God interviened and brought me to my knees and reminded me where my peace comes from and where my day should start: on my knees not on my feet. I'm so glad He grabbed my heart and gave me a day off to rest and enjoy. I hope you were able to do the same. 

Saturday, January 18, 2014

Biblical Narrative (a paper from a class I took at LU)


NARRATIVES:

The most common type of literature in the Bible is narrative.  Over 40% of the Old Testament is narrative.  Genesis, Joshua, Judges, Ruth, 1 and 2 Samuel, 1 and 2 Kings, 1 and 2 Chronicles, Ezra, Nehemiah, Daniel, Jonah, and Haggai are largely or entirely composed of narrative material.  Exodus, Numbers, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Isaiah, and Job also contain substantial narrative portions according to our reading in Fee and Stuart.  “Failure to understand both the reason for and the character of Hebrew narrative has caused many Christians in the past the read the Old Testament story very poorly.” (Fee & Stuart, 2003, p.89)  This is a Christian’s spiritual history and is important to understand.  The “calling of God to Israel are your Historical promises and calling.” (Fee & Stuart, 2003, p. 89)   Narratives are stories with the purpose of retelling past event in such a way that they can be understood and applied in the present.  They consist of three parts: a plot, a plot resolution (redemption), and characters.  In traditional literature the characters are the “protagonist” (God), the “antagonist” (Satan) and the “agonist” (God’s people, us) (Fee & Stuart, 2003, p. 90). 

Fee & Stuart attempt to clarify some of the common problems people experiences when interpreting and applying of the genre of Scripture.  They include allegorizing, decontextualizing, selectivity, moralizing, personalizing, misappropriation, false appropriation, false combination, and redefinition. (Fee & Stuart, 2003, pgs. 103-104)  I found myself guilty of many of these.  I was really guilty of decontextualizing (“ignoring the full historical and literary contexts, and often the individual narrative”) (Fee & Stuart, 2003, p. 103) and only concentrating on small units which I thought to be the main theme or “moral.” This surely led me to selectivity and personalizing the story to fit my life or situation.  Narratives are not “allegories or stories filled with hidden meaning” or “are not intended to teach a moral lesson”. (Fee & Stuart, 2003, p.93)  

After identifying some common mistakes Fee and Stuart sum it up by providing some principals for interpreting narratives.  For me personally, I thought principle #3 was important that “narratives record what happened (honestly good and bad) not necessarily what should have happened or what ought to happen every time…” However, I am going to override that thought (due to my past experience with the Bible especially the Old Testament) and go with #4 as critical advice.  Principal #4 states that “what people do in narratives is not necessarily a good example for us.  Frequently it is just the opposite.”  I tend to go to the Bible in “looking for an example” and then “making it mean what I need or want it to mean.”  These principles give us a good mental start and direction to reading the Old Testament scripture.  However, if we still run into confusion we should still pray and seek outside sources for additional support such as commentaries and pastors etc.  (Stuart & Fee, 2003, p.206)

 

Fee, G.D.,& Stuart, D.K. (2003). How to read the Bible for all its worth. (3rd ed.). Zondervan Publishing Company.

A few summaries from the New Testament

John
The book of John is one of four gospels in the New Testament.  John was a close companion of Jesus.  His purpose for writing this gospel was to proclaim Jesus as the Savior and Redeemer of the world by presenting convincing proofs of His identity as God, man, and Messiah.  John is an evangelistic gospel, persuading people to trust in Christ for salvation.  He emphasizes the word believe, more than any other gospel.  He includes many titles of Jesus such as Son of God, Son of Man, King, and Messiah or Christ.  John demonstrates that Jesus has the attributes of deity, including omniscience, omnipresence and preexistence.  John also provided miracles that Jesus performed to further illustrate His divine identity.  Some highlighted events include: Jesus’ incarnation, Jesus’ public ministry (this includes His miracles and His prediction of His death, believers turning to Him, and even the rejection He was subject to).  John includes Jesus’ private ministry to His disciples, as well as Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection. 

 
Acts
The Book of Acts is of narrative and gospel genre.  The book begins with a recount of Jesus’ life right before and right after His crucifixion.  Through prayer, Matthias was chosen to replace Judas as a disciple.  The day of the Pentecost, the Holy Spirit filled the apostles.  Peter addresses the crowd, and they devoted themselves to the teachings of the apostles.  Peter heals a crippled beggar and then speaks to the onlookers regarding the God of Abraham.  While speaking, Peter and John were arrested for their disturbance.  Peter and John then went before Sanhedrin and warned not to keep teaching and let them go.  They return to their people and share their stories.  The apostles heal many people, but are persecuted by several other people.  The apostles then chose seven men to help mediate among the Jews.  One of the seven, Stephen was seized and brought before the Sanhedrin.  He was stoned to death which caused the church to scatter.  Peter then started to reach the Gentiles since the Jews refused to hear him.  King Herod arrested Peter, but was able to escape.  There are many chapters on the different locations the apostles traveled and preached as the church spread.  The book ends with Paul preaching in Rome while being held by guards.  The book is really a look at the spread of Christianity and God’s work in the church. 

 
1 Corinthians
The Book of 1 Corinthians is one of several of the epistle genres.  Paul writes this letter to the church of Corinth, which was a strategic center in Greece at this time.  He begins with an introduction of greetings of grace and a prayer of thanksgiving.  He then talks about disunity in the church and division.  He encourages them to stop quarrelling and discusses the causes and solutions to the quarrels.  He then talks about immorality, lawsuits among each other and sexual immorality.  He encourages them to stop taking legal action and settle their differences in a Christian matter.  Paul explains to the church what God wants out of a marriage and here he gives his own opinion on marriage.  Paul talks about food sacrificed to idols and gives warnings about Israel’s past.  He addresses worship in the church and Jesus’ resurrection and what that means to be a believer.  He then tells them he will be visiting and ends his letter with personal greetings.     

 
James
The Book of James is another epistle genre.  James is the half-brother of Jesus and leader of the Jerusalem church.  James begins his letter by explaining that facing trials develops perseverance.  James talks about a Christian lifestyle.  He explains control of the tongue, submission to God, a right attitude toward money, and patience in the midst of suffering.  He explains that God does not tempt anyone.  James advises that everyone should be quick to listen, and slow to speak.  James addresses his brothers in Christ that favoritism are forbidden and that faith and good deeds go hand and hand.  James warns against boasting and encourages his brothers to be patient and to pray.  In his letter he really address trials and tribulations (no one is exempt) and actively living out your faith and belief no matter what is going on and especially in those times of suffering when prayer and patience is needed the most.

 
Revelation
The Book of Revelation is mainly apocalyptic genre, and is hard to understand.  There has been much debate about the symbolic or literal meanings of the text.  However, John introduces himself and explains his vision.  He addresses seven churches.  Seven is a key number in this book.  John then describes the throne in heaven and gives a description of the sealed scrolls that only the Lamb could break.  John saw the Lamb open the seals one-by-one.  After the sixth seal was broke four angels described the 144,000 that were sealed as servants of God (this is a low number to me as I look at the population counts of today).  The seventh seal opened and seven trumpets start.  Each trumpet represents a catastrophe.  John sees 144,000 sealed with the Father’s name written on their forehead.  He then saw three angels proclaim judgment and then reap the harvest.  Seven angels have seven bowls filled with seven plagues which is God’s wrath.  A lot in the book draws from the OT as well so you should be familiar with the OT visions and prophecies.  Babylon is destroyed and a big celebration happens because the salvation and glory belong to God.  After a thousand years, Satan will wage war and get defeated.  The dead are judged (sad day) and a new heaven, new earth, and a new Jerusalem will exist.  There is no date given as to when this will take place but John ends with a warning that anyone who adds to or takes away from the prophecy will be dealt with.      

 

 

A few summaries from the Old Testament

Exodus
The book of Exodus is a book of the OT Law.  The title of the book came from the Greek word exodus, meaning “a road out of” or “departure.” The principal theme of this book is God’s deliverance of the Jews from Egypt.  The book also documents Israel’s birth as a nation, God’s giving of the law to His people, and the beginnings of Israel’s ritual worship.  It begins with the Jews enslaved in Egypt.  Despite the enslavement of the Jews they continued to grow in numbers and the Pharaoh introduced a harsh policy designed to alleviate fears of a possible Israelite rebellion and consigned the Jews to hard labor.  God then calls Moses (who left after killing an Egyptian for beating a Jew) to be a deliverer of His people.  Moses returned to Egypt, confronts the Pharaoh and a series of 10 plagues sweep through Egypt, the last one being the death of the first born.  The Jews are delivered. The Pharaoh changed his mind and sent his arm after them.  God protected them in events such as the parting on the Red Sea.  God provided food and water to His people while they were in the wilderness.  God then instituted His covenant, which necessitated obedience to the Ten Commandments and to laws governing a variety of civil and religious matters.  The covenant was ratified through blood.  God then gave directions for the tabernacle.  The Israelites broke the law with the construction of a golden calf idol and Moses intercession allowed the people to repent and renew the covenant.  Israel finally obeys God by constructing the tabernacle and brought offerings. 

 

Job
The book of Job is largely narrative material.  This book deals with a huge question of: If God is good and just and powerful, why do good people suffer?  Job was an upright and faithful man who had done nothing wrong, and yet catastrophe overwhelmed him.  Satan was behind the scenes trying to get Job to loose faith in God.  Although Job had questions and suffered he remained faithful.  The book begins with Job as a wealthy, righteous, and respected man.  Satan accuses Job before God.  God permits Satan to inflict suffering upon Job.  Job then lost his sons and daughters, his sheep and herds, his servants, and his health.  Even through this he remained faithful.  Job breaks a little and wishes he was never born.  His friends believed he was suffering because he had sinned.  Job defends his innocence.  Elihu explains that this is not a punishment that it may be due to his self-centeredness he had fallen into.  The Lord finally speaks to Job and asked him several questions to demonstrate Job’s finitude and ignorance to his why.  Job then repents and is delivered and God gives him twice as many worldly goods as he had in the beginning and restores his family.     

 

Ecclesiastes
The genre of this book is wisdom and is written by King Solomon.  This book highlights two contrasting ways of looking at humanity’s plight in the world.  One is the secular, humanistic, materialistic viewpoint that sees life as futile, meaningless, and purposeless.  The other viewpoint is the godly or spiritual perspective.  The book begins to bring to light the futility of human endeavors.  Everything seems to run in cycles, sun rises and sets, people are born and people die, the wind blows and there is little satisfaction in life.  Solomon then investigates the possibility of finding meaning in things such as knowledge, wisdom, laughter, pleasure, wine, good works, wealth, music, women, and other worldly pleasures.  He found that none of this brings satisfaction.  He adds that we should be content and rejoice in the blessings God has provided us.  He then goes into the limitations of human knowledge and wisdom.  His advice here is to choose to enjoy life despite life’s enigmas and mysteries.  Work hard and enjoy life for death awaits us all.  He encourages us to live joyfully, live responsibly and fear God and keep His commandments.  Live in this world but not of this world. 

 

Song of Songs
The genre of this book is poetic and is also written by King Solomon.  This book illustrates the greatness of sexual love between husband and wife through songs.  This book reflects the joy and pain of relations and the boundaries for experiencing that joy and pain.  He outlines the courtship and the process of falling in love.  He sings of a beautiful girl longing for her lover to be with her.  One day, her beloved appeared and a wedding procession was grand.  They rejoiced with each other and dined in the garden with their guest.  The wedding was consummated and joy was abundant.  Marital problems hit and the husband withdrew.  They renewed their love and reconciled with each other.  The marriage deepened and their relationship matured.  They took a trip together and people were amazed at her beauty and their love for each other and the bride exulted, “Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away.”  This really sheds light on what deep meaningful relationships are about and the meaning of marriage as it was intended to be with a man and woman. 

 

Habakkuk
The genre of this book is prophecy.  Habakkuk was a prophet and wrestles with the question of why innocent people suffer while evil people so often seem to prosper.  God responded to him with the fact that His people must trust Him and the wicked will be judged.  Habakkuk is talking with God about the wickedness of Judah and asked God how long He would be silent about this matter.  God replies that He has a plan to use the Babylonians as His whipping rod against the people of Judah.  This judgment would be swift and violent.  Habakkuk then asked God why a righteous and holy God would use an evil nation like the Babylonians to bring judgment on Judah.  God replies that He is fully aware of the transgressions of the Babylonians.  However, Judah is also guilty.  God explains that both Judah and the Babylonians were under condemnation.  Habakkuk is enlightened and ends this book with a psalm of praise to God.  He celebrates God’s power.  Habakkuk came to see that God’s knows best and with this knowledge he gained confidence and expressed joy before the Lord. 

Monday, April 8, 2013

LEAD YOUR FAMILY LIKE JESUS Book Review

 
 
A Little About the Book:

     Does your family need help getting organized? Do you need a psychologist or couselor to help sort out the drama?  Or do you need a coach or director to help move your family from the chaos they are in to more peaceful and happier times with lifelong memories and lessons?  Do you just desire more peace and more of Jesus in your family?  Well, you are in luck!  Ken Blanchard, best-selling coauthor of The One Minute Manager and Lead Like Jesus will show you can become more like Jesus and lead your family into newer and deeper levels of life that will not only make an impact on you but also on your kids.  Ken is joined by verteran parents and authors Phil Hodges and Tricia Goyer.  Together they will take you on an epic journey to help you to lead your family like Jesus. 
    
     Lead Your Family Like Jesus will take you through twelve priceless parenting principles based on the Savior's life and teachings-from "Say Yes to the Best and No to the Rest" to "Know the Difference Between a Crisis and a Bump in the Road."  You will also discover how your heart, head, hands, and habits can work together as you serve your way to a truly Christ-centered family.
 
     I don't know about you, but my kids are everything to me!  I am so honored to have been given the opportunity to read this book and travel through the life of Jesus and learn new ways to truly center our lives around Christ!
 
 
 
Lead Your Family Like Jesus Review:
 
     I have to start by saying that I am so honored to have been a part of this book launch.  I am so honored to have had the opportunity to meet and serve with some pretty amazing people.  Each of us committed to join hands with Ken Blanchard, Phil Hodges and Tricia Goyer as they began to launch their latest book, Lead Your Family Like Jesus.  Not only did we join hands with them, but we also joined them on an amazing spiritual journey.  Through this many of us have began to take a new journey or path with our own families.  So, with a renewed vision and much encouragement I now give you my personal opinion of this book and a basic review!
 
     I am far from a "perfect" parent.  In fact, there have been times in my life where I have had to ask God, "why did you trust me with two other lives?"  He chose me to be there mom.  He believed in me and loved me so much that He gave me this amazing journey of parenting.  The key word there is journey.  We all learn as we go!  There have been times in that journey that I have found myself saying, "I am sorry" as much as I say "I love you."  I am just a sinner saved by grace!  It is not on my own works and I have no room to boast.  As a parent I want what is best for my kids and that means what is best for them now, but also what is best for them eternally.
 
     This book is divided into four parts and twelve chapters.  I will tell you that if you are a person that likes to take notes or highlight in your books you will fill each page with bright colors or a notebook full of notes.  In each section Ken, Phil, and Tricia share their thoughts!  This not only makes it a great read (I mean three great authors from different backgrounds with different views) but it also makes it a very powerful read.  You will travel with them each through the four sections of the book, The Heart, The Head, The Hands and The Habits.  As you read along their journies in parenting you are also given awesome testimony from others all throughout the book.  You are not alone in this at all.  It is sort of like a study group going on in the midst of an amazing message. 
 
     The Heart:  Leading like Jesus as a parent is first a spiritual matter.  Since you have been given the honor to influence your kids you need to ask yourself "Am I motivated by self-interest or by the betterment of those I'm leading?"  You need to know what is important forever and what is tempory in life.  You need to also live by what is important forever.  Once you understand this you will then journey through how an unChristlike kind of EGO (Edging God Out) can cause you to make choices that can and will hurt our families.  But in this section of the heart Tricia share the hope of another kind of EGO (Exalting God Only).  With this EGO, she shows us how Jesus set a pattern for us to exalt God and lead our families for the important forever!
 
     The Head:  "The journey to leading like Jesus as a parent starts in the heart, with your motives and intent.  Those motives and intent then travel through the head, where you store your beliefs about parenting."
     Jesus told us and showed us that leadership (parenting) is first an act of service.  How do you become a servant leader?  This does not mean you please everyone all the time.  (Many parents know how exhausting that can be.)  We still have to keep in mind the important forevers.  We as parents should not be worried about pleasing others or how we look in the PTA meeting.  We should be concerned about pleasing God, our Father, and not others. 
     In this section you will begin to look at or think about the importance of  vision and direction for your family.  Where are you leading them?  And, is that pleasing to God?  Is it forever important?  You will look at your values and what you stand for and you will also view the primary focus of your family.  Where are you going?  What do you stand for?  Who are you and whose are you?
 
     The Hands:  "Family members will experience what's in your heart and head when your motivations and beliefs about parenting affect your hands-your actions.  If as a parent you have a servant heart and a servant-leadership point of view, you'll become a performance coach." 
     This section had the words performance coaching.  I am a life and spiritual coach.  I never really thought of myself as a coach to my kids.  However, I AM just as Jesus was and is! 
     In this section you will focus on making the most of the parenting years because as most of us know they go by quick.  Also, Ken does an amazing job at showing us how we are coaches to our kids and what that looks like and how that works in the family in this section. (Love it)  Phil really brings to this chapter the emphasis of the results of great parenting.  He really focuses on obedience here as well. 
 
     The Habits:  This section was my personal favorite.  Overtime, our perspectives can get warped and our habits become us and can be some of the most challenging things to address and change.  However, NEVER impossible. 
     "As a leader committed to serve despite all the pressures, trials, and temptations He faced, how did Jesus replenish His energy and servan perspective?  Through His HABITS!"
     "Your habits are the way you review and act on your daily commitment as a parent to serve rather than being served."
     If you want to stay on track; you need to stay close and connected to Christ.  In this final part of the book, Ken lays out five ways or powerful habits that can help you stay on track with leading your family like Jesus.  He starts with solitude!  Be still and know that I am God. Psalms 46:10.  The next habit is prayer.  Here he share the acrnmy ACTS to help others pray. A is for adoration. C is for confession.  T is for thanksgiving and S is for supplication or asking.  The third habit, (and one I am challenging myself to do more of in the mornings and not just at night) studying and applying scripture.  The fourth habit is accepting God's love and then finally being involved in supportive relationships.  (I could really use more of these!)  Tricia piggy backs on several of these concepts such as solitude, prayer and relying on the Word of God.   She shows us how to pray for our kids with the song head, shoulder, knees and toes.  (This you will sing and pray over and over.  I love it) Then
Phil wraps it all up with the greatest habits that God showed us: forgiveness and grace. 
 
Every page is full of something for everyone no matter where you are in life or parenting.  Lead Your Family Like Jesus has something for everyone!  To add to that, YOU ARE NOT ALONE in this book!  As you read you will journey through many lives including the authors!  You are sure to connect with someone in this book if not many on several levels!  There is a lot of information that you can use to transform your family towards the important forever!  This book is a quick read, but I would recommend taking your time and really looking at your family.  It will be worth it for you and your kids.  Sit down with a group of other parents or alone in your room or with your husband or make this a family read.  There are many ways to use this book and when you are done.......read it again......I am sure you will find more! 
 
I will continue to read this book throughout my parenting season!  I will also be forever thankful that the walk of Jesus applies to all no matter what stage of life you are in, who you are, where you have been, where you are at, and where you are going!  He is truly the way, the truth, and life.  Your family can be His light?  So, who are you and whose are you? Then, do your words and actions reflect that truth?
 
 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Restoring Balance

The idea of balance defines our Universe. The cosmos, our planet, the seasons, the oceans, and our forest are all in perfect balance. Even our Earth has to restore balance from time to time. We witness this through events such as hurricanes, tornados, floods, fires, and other acts of nature. Wouldn't it be nice if we could flood our past or those days that we would like to have disappear and restore it all back into balance? Awe, if it were only that easy.

Humans unlike nature and the Universe are an exception. We tend to live our lives out of balance for the most part. We have eight components of life; spiritual, intellectual, emotional, physical, social, cultural, occupational and environmental. So, with so many compartments in our lives is it even possible to maintain balance in all areas or can we only balance a few areas and juggle the rest the best we can (which is what we tend to do anyways)?

According to Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, living a balanced life is obtainable and starts with the way we process the world and our surroundings. Have you ever heard the sayings; "When you change the way you process the world, the world you are processing changes" or "If you think you can, then you can?" As humans our pattern tends to be: The more we have the more we desire; the more we take the more we need. The less effective it is the more we consume," and this is toxic to our well-being. How you perceive the world that is around you, and the more in balance you are with your thoughts, dreams, and passions, the easier it is to balance everything else out. An ancient Hindu saying is; "God gives food to every bird but He doesn't throw it in the nest." In other words God gives us what we need but we still have to do some work to obtain the fullness of our lives. Now, I have come up with a list of 20 ways you can start getting your life into balance. So, let us begin!

1. Focus on your dreams no matter what
2. Don't focus on how difficult things are
3. Focus on this statement "You get what you think about whether you want it or not"
4. Slow down/Be patient/and enjoy the small things
5. Become conscious of your desire to be at peace and adjust you thing around those thoughts
6. Be a loving person, not a judgmental person
7. Love yourself
8. Be accepting to change
9. Stand for what you believe in regardless of what others think
10. Never compromise what you believe and how you feel for the happiness of someone else
11. Let go of you past and remove all shame and guilt LIVE FOR A NEW KNOWING
12. Know that you are enough and believe in yourself and dreams
13. Don't dwell on what is missing from your life
14. Stop complaining and cultivating a bad, unlucky and unworthy image of yourself
15. Capitalize on your talents/strengths
16. Integrate your passion with your career
17. Get organized
18. Live simple not beyond your means if you attempt too much you will succeed at nothing
19. Rest and be active
20. Take time outs

This list will not bring your life into balance, but it is a start and will give you something to think about. If you feel out of balance then your day-to-day routines and habits define your life. Louisa May Alcott once said, “Far away in the sunshine are my highest inspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty, believe in them and try to follow where they lead…” This doesn’t sound like day-to-day routine and habits to me. Basically, being in balance is all about following your passion, living our your dreams, having a positive attitude, don’t sweat the small stuff, love yourself, and never give up on what you believe, think and feel. We let life control us, knock us down, and hold us back. This produces stress in one or more areas of our lives and a snow ball effect in our heads causing us to feel stressed, out of balance, and creating negative victimized thinking which flows from our heads to our bodies. This produces a negative outlook, unhappiness, physical systems such as fatigue and much more. Who enjoys living this way? Millions of Americans feel this way, out of balance, stressed, and a lack of passion for life. Over 112 million Americans are on prescribed medications to reduce the side effects of living out of balance and stress. This is sad, and I am sure this is not how we intend to live our lives all the time. (always searching for peace and balance) So, quit trying to conquer the world and everything in it. You are fighting the impossible. We have never won anything by trying to conquer it. Look at the war on poverty and on drugs. Since we started trying to conquer those poverty has spread and the jail population has tripled. Follow your own dreams and go where your passion lies. Love and keep things as simple as you can. When you think you can; you can! Also, know your self worth and don’t sell yourself short of what you desire and know is possible. Then last but not least…DREAM BIG! –Express don’t suppress-